...there's always something to share... i'm sharing the stories of my journey in life... for myself to remember, to appreciate and to miss in the future...

Pentingnya Solat!

Aku tersenyum bangga membaca luahan Wardina Safiyyah di dalam FB Page nya... honestly aku salute dengan cara dia menitikberatkan sembahyang kepada anak2nya.... the same goes with me.... memang bab2 sembahyang ni aku very particular sket... aku tak la cakap aku ni BAGUS SANGAT... tapi insyaAllah satu benda yang aku akan jaga betul2 ialah SOLAT... sebab SOLAT ITU TIANG AGAMA... Semua orang Islam patut faham benda ni dan tak perlu ada suara2 nakal berkata... "Alah! Macamlah ALIM sangat!!" ;-)

Anyway sebelum aku membebel panjang (as usual... :-P) aku kongsikan luahan hati Wardina dan tips dari beliau dengan korang semua... May we find it useful for us too! ;-)

BERBALOI PENAT LELAH KU...
by Wardina Safiyyah OfficialPage on Friday, March 11, 2011 at 2:47pm

Dear Mama, Ummi, Mum, Ibu, Bonda...

I have to share this with you... because i feel so happy and i feel that all my penat lelahpaid off...

I started to make my Amna to solat 5 times a day when she was 7, on her 7th birthday...we had a talk...(check note lama) tapi preparation since 6 la...tapi dari kecik memang selalu ikut2 la kami solat....she hasnt missed her solat since. Walaupun lambat, tetap solat. I made sure of that - because the key is SOLAT ni kalau tak tanam dari kecik memang LIAT nanti....But it is very important to keep this in mind:-

1) kalau kita bagi dia tinggal WALAUPUN sekali nanti we are sending the wrong signal - kena make sure - every waktu without fail, walaupun penat, ataupun lambat

2)l Selalu kalau boleh solat together..mula2 memang kena solat together....kalau tak ada rumah make sure an adult in the house pastikan anak kita solat. (hari tu Amna pergi her reading class, i asked her teacher to take her to the suarau) - lepas solat time tu lah peluk cium, senyum - i always kiss her at the head and say "Barakallahufiha" Ya Allah make my Amna a good Muslim Ya Allah....make her never miss her solat Ya Allah.....kuat2 bagi dia dengar....ps:- kalau kena amik cuti ambillah - bukan waktu exam je amik cuti - buatlah STEP ini, yakni melangkah ke alam 7 thaun dan tidak meninggalkan solat A BIG Thing! "mama amik cuti hari ni sebab nak pastikan yang adik solat 5 waktu sehari!"

3)Selalu cerita how IMPORATANT it is to solat..how Allah is watching us... how we are good Muslims when we solat, how Allah loves us, Solat tu, untuk kita, bukan untuk Allah.....TAPI selalu jugak cerita yang akan ada orang TAK solat...acknowledge the fact that sometimes we feel lazy to solat....itu semua kerja SETAN! Fight them off....! I tell Amna that even some grown ups tak solat! I tell Amna that....we have to be strong.. we have to tell ourselves we will NEVER miss our solat.....

4)Awal2 subuh ni memang tak bangunkan, tapi as soon as dia bangun pagi, ill ask her to solat straight away.(yes memang leceh..but we have to, and we have to do it with LOVEdiselang seli dgn strictness)

5)kalau dia tinggal - DENGAN sengaja, i take the rotan and hit her on her tapak tangan slowly, just as a reminder. After that i hug her and tell her i love her, and i just want her to remember - and guess what?? memang dia ingat!!! (3 kali baru, i think not bad, sampai satu hari dia terlambat solat, sebab keluar dan memang tak ingat, dia yang suruh rotan) But i tell her kalau TERLUPA atau TERTIDUR its ok...but kena solat terus bila bangun.

Macam ni ceritanya, i told Amna, kalau Ummi ambik Amna dari sekolah lambat, Amna solat dulu Asar kat sekolah....tadi memang datang lambat...i was loking for her..and guess what????

She was actually praying her Asar prayers...sorang je kat dalam surau tu....i wanted to pengsan and cry...she did all by herself.... i pun told her how happy and how proud i was of her...i tanya dia kenapa? dia kata "Amna ingat apa Ummi cakap".....cair nya hatiku ini.

Apa lagi, Ummi ni peluk cium dia....and called nenek at Australia...now im sharing with all of you!!! Because i want us to raise generation of good Muslims that are disciplined, smart, intelligent -that remembers Allah because the world so BADLY needs good QUALITY Muslims like this!!!

And the foundation is - to start them off right - solat at SEVEN! Yes just as how Rasulullah asked us!

I love you all!!! Good night.....

But the key to all this IS Mak Ayah KENA dan WAJIB solat dulu...anak ketam tak boleh diajar berjalan terus...fahamkan?


Aku selalu igtkan diri aku bahawa anak itu adalah AMANAH dari Allah swt... Jadi, sebagai pemegang amanah, besar tanggungjawab ibubapa tu dalam mendidik anak2 menjadi insan yang cemerlang.. Bukan hanya di dunia pinjaman ini semata2 tapi juga di akhirat yang kekal abadi...

Tak dinafikan mendidik anak itu bukan mudah... Esp dlm zaman skarang ni... Segalanya mencabar... I've to admit that for myself... Sebab tu aku takut nak beranak ramai... Takut tak mampu mendidik anak2ku sebaiknya... Boleh terima tak alasan ni? Ehe!

Anyewy, tak semestinya anak kita akan jadik insan yang berjaya kalau dia dihantar belajar di sekolah berasrama penuh, sekolah antarabangsa waima maahad sekalipun... Kerana didikan itu sebenarnya bermula dari ibu ayah sendiri... Everything else comes as a bonus or token jer...

So, asas yang paling penting adalah yang diterapkan di hati dan di minda anak2 oleh ibubapa nya sendiri... As for myself, aku sentiasa igtkan diri aku, mendidik anak adalah jihad! Walaupun kekadang tu aku lost my mind easily with them! Hahaha...

I pray to Allah to have HIS mercy on us (Tuan Beso & me) and give us the strength, patience, knowledge, iman & taqwaa in our jihad in raising our kids... May we be the best Parents to Aiman & Alyssa, and they be successful in dunia & akhirat! AMIN!!

~ Selalu kita dengar betapa bangganya seorang ibu/ayah tu bila anak dia berjaya dengan cemerlang dalam exam... Berjaya lulus cemerlang dalam UPSR, PMR, SPM, STPM and so on... Berjaya mendapat tempat di top university bla bla bla... Tapi amat jarang kita dengar luahan kebanggaan dan kegembiraan hati seorang ibu seperti Wardina ni kan... Adakah ibu2/ayah2 zaman sekarang terlupa bahawa anaknya juga perlu berjaya di akhirat? Wallahualam...

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effa said...

cair aku baca entry ni adie.. its the truth though.. nak mendidik anak is not easy, as parents kita kena sacrifice our time for them.. semoga Allah mempermudahkan segala urusan..

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