:: The Reality of Beautiful Life ::

Dari kecik lagi aku dah encourage anak2 aku to make their own bed... Baik aiman atau alyssa... Dedua sama jer aku ajar... Takde beza baik boy or girl... No favoritism whatsoeva... Kalau dulu2 masa aku kekecik, my mom selalu in favor of the boys and i felt REALLY unfair! So, with my own kids, i dont do that! Hehehehe....

Aku nak both my kids ada sense of responsibility seawal umur camni... Sebab aku percaya didikan tu bermula dari dorang mula2 melihat dunia ni lagi... Start SMALL but aim BIG! Sikit2 lama2 jadi bukit! And That is what i believe cum menjadi motto hidup aku in raising my own kids!

Maybe to some people they think its too early for their age nak buat benda2 ni semua kan... But, look into a BIG picture and dont compress your mind... And jangan la put so much expectation on them... Semua benda harus dibuat ikut logic akal kan... Takkan la budak sekecik alyssa can properly make her bed like me kann... Get real man!!

Of cos la aku kena touch up lepas dia 'kemas' katil dia kan... Tak mungkin alyssa blh tarik and susun bantal dia molek2 yea tak... Remember, the main idea behind all these is to let them learn and take responsibility... Especially with their own personal things... Tu jer... Bukan nak menDERA yea... Nanti ada plak yg kol TELEdera and lodge complaint pasal aku! Ekekeke...

Aku ni jenis yang bukan manjakan anak tak bertempat... Dan aku jugak suka ajar anak aku berdikari... Sebab aku dulu diajar macam tu oleh parents aku... Sebab tulah kalau kau cAmpak aku kat ceruk mana sekalipun dlm dunia ni, i always have my 'survival kit' ready for use, anytime, anywhere... So, aku nak anak2 aku pun macam tu jugak la lebih kurang... Be independant!

sekarang ni, aiman pun dah paham sgt dengan tugas2 dia... Such as, every wiken tugas dia kemas katil sendiri... Cuma weekdays jer aku tolong kemas for him... Hopefully bila dia dah besar sikit, aku dah tak yah tolong dah and he will be able to do everything by himself all along...

...alyssa pantang aku nak amik gambo terus posing! Sakan tul!